Regular Life

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. – Robert Frost

Browsing Posts published in March, 2010

Always With MeI think only Los Angeles tops Texas cities in terms of urban sprawl. Last week I tried to think of ways I could help reduce my contribution to the problems it causes.

I threw around the idea of riding my bicycle to work.

Besides my healthy fear of pedaling alongside rolling steel boxes of death piloted by the increasingly distracted, there was the small matter of the distance and time involved. Google Maps put the ride at 10.3 miles and 53 minutes.

That isn’t too shabby considering that it takes me nearly half that time to go the 11.2 miles in my car. But, by the time I add in the time it takes me to shower after sweating in the 80-degree pre-dawn Texas temperatures, the bicycle looks even less attractive. Not to mention the various fungi the work showers would introduce to my feet.

If I walked it, I could cut my distance to 9.9 miles, but Google estimates the time at 3 hours, 14 minutes. Under the “hobbies” section, I checked “photography,” and it jacked my time up to 4 hours. Ouch.

I know my commute isn’t very long compared to many around me. Basically, I drive from one suburb to the next, while most keep going into the city. I never even get on the highways. No mixmasters, no high-fives, no HOV lanes.

Compared to where we lived before Texas, however, it’s a killer. It took me maybe four minutes to drive to work, and there I did ride my bicycle in a few times.

Still, I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut when I feel like saying I’d like to live closer to work.

There’s a great commuter rail system, but the tracks stop about 10 miles shy of where I work and don’t show any signs of extending. Carpooling just wouldn’t work with my unpredictable quitting times and my occasional need to work from home.

So, I’m back to moving as about the only way to commute more responsibly. Until, of course, work decides that telecommuting every day is just fine. I often wonder how many people would leave metro areas if they had that option.

These pictures from our Dinosaur Valley State Park trip didn’t make the series, but I wanted to share. (click any pic to enlarge)

Left – I never get tired of bare branch shadows.

Tree Shadow     Life Jugs

Right – Is it wrong that I couldn’t take these things seriously?


Left – Do my feet look numb?

Crossers     Creation Evidence Museum

Right – Is it wrong that I couldn’t take this place seriously?


Mini Jukebox

Found at an old diner/ice cream shop in Granbury, Texas.

Don’t you love it when the unexpected outshines the planned?

Our son spent Saturday night with my local in-laws while my wife and I had a date, and snow began falling. It piled up to 9 inches by the time I woke at 7:30 a.m. — and still was coming down hard.

I wandered around alone a while with my camera, then picked up Benjamin, who wanted to go “back to the forest where you went this morning, Daddy.”

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Mommy and the boy have fun after our meal (click for bigger).

When someone recommends a restaurant so highly that they give you $40 cash to get you started, you tend to make it a priority.

Shannon and I dropped by my local in-laws’ place to leave our dog with them prior to our spontaneous overnight excursion. Her stepfather, away at the golf course, had left money and directions for a restaurant that he, Shannon’s mother, and other family happened upon accidentally on a recent road trip.

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After Benjamin finished wallering around with the Girl Scouts, I noticed that the bed in the miniature truck was full of fossils. As I called him to take a look, State Park Lady came over and provided detailed descriptions of various extinct Nautilus ancestors, trilobytes, fossilized coral and sea worms.

“The parrotfish lives in the coral reef, and it bites the sea anemone to eat off the algae,” Benjamin said. My eyes widened a bit. Despite my asking him what he learns at school each day, he reveals nothing until it’s relevant, and he never stops surprising me.

I wasn’t surprised that his attention wavered when State Park Lady explained how petrification is different from fossilization, using phrases like, “at the cellular level.” Lady, he may have sounded great with that parrotfish stuff, but they haven’t quite covered cells in his first-grade science curriculum.

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He set his tiny feet on the first rock and wobbled against the water rushing over his knees. I stepped onto the downstream side of the same rock and braced against the cold and the current. Standing firm but paralyzed, he turned his head and looked up at me, but his words weren’t needed.

After our first day at Dinosaur Valley State Park, when I could no longer resist my somnolence in the face of the awful Battlefield Earth, I lifted the sleeping boy from next to his mother and tucked him into the pallet we had made on the floor, then climbed into the hotel bed.

Despite the time change overnight, Benjamin woke me in his usual 6-7 a.m. range asking, “Daddy, will you play with me?”

I got dressed and took him downstairs to scope out the coffee situation. The breakfast buffet, a $10.95 “convenience” easily skipped, did not distract me from the free coffee (despite its inferiority to the fresh-ground I brew at home).

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Opportunity. She knocks, yet too many don’t bother looking through the peephole, and spontaneity isn’t even given a chance.

And to think, they could have walked in the footsteps of dinosaurs.

At 8:30 on Saturday morning, Benjamin and I had spent about an hour and a half building with Wedgits, eating breakfast, and just hanging out.

“Would you like to go hike a trail?” I said. It began innocently enough.

“Yes.”

“Please go tell your mommy it’s 8:30.”

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I ran and grabbed my camera and took a few shots through the boy’s bedroom windows. My subject moved a few houses down the road. “Hey, Benjamin, I need to go outside for a better look. You want to come with me?”

“Yes.”

“You need to put on some shoes.”

“Well, I’ll just watch you from here in my room.”

I dashed outside, but before I got to the right house, I heard a familiar voice from behind me. “Daddy,” Benjamin whispered. I signaled for him to come along, but quietly.

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Cedar WaxwingThe photos I post on this site are un-cropped, unless otherwise noted. All three of the images today are versions of the same picture I shot through my son’s bedroom window.

I’m a firm believer in saving time by composing the shot on the front end rather than later, and the purist in me is a bit obsessive about it. My first 20 years of learning photography, the only cropping I got was whatever the lab needed to make it fit the print size proportions, and that got frustrating at times.

To get the full frame as I shot it, and to avoid unwelcome adjustments to light and color made during printing, I started shooting my “serious” stuff strictly with slide film. Gone were the days of the lab staff (or the printing machine) deciding what I intended when I tripped the shutter. This helped me learn.

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If I show you what’s in my couch, will you show me what’s in yours?

The contents of a couch can tell a lot about a home’s residents. The oldest piece in our living room, our couch has supported us through nine years in four houses. A black mesh covering its underside, however, has become detached along the front edge and hangs loose like the roof liner of an old car. As a result, various items work their way down through the spaces between the cushions or by bouncing up from the floor to rest in the concealed hammock.

Each time I reach under the couch to retrieve one of Benjamin’s toys, I wonder which lump inside that mesh finally will hatch and come out at night to eat us all.

The day after Christmas 2009, I decided to flip the couch and finally end the mystery.

Here’s what I found (photos and conclusion after the jump):

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